Hello,
...it is just the way most people are.
I do not get upset with people and/or their opinions. You have upset me by taking the liberty to re-arrange my name!@ you do not know me well enough to call me whatever you like and if we can find compromise in lending enough respect to one another that we will respect the other's name, we should get along just fine.
Later....Petergunn Lookstwice.