Mommycable, I was in the Cable TV business for 25 yrs. Was treated for the most part in the industry "dawgs" like the "plague". Because I loved family life, morals and respect!
Do not let these people fool you, "they care NOTHING of you as a mother or wofe"! They would as quickly get your husband into a "titty bar" drinking as they try to do everyone on the road as a "Cable Dawg". They try to make this "cable Dawg" crap out to be some "honorable" thing! It's not!
Get your husband "OUT" while you still can! Get him "Home" while you still can!
Yes, it can be a good living out on the road, going where the money is! But, speaking from experience, if you weigh all the pro & Cons, "IF YOUR REALLY LOVE HIM" having him home will FAR outweigh NOT having him home!
Marriage was not meant for the two people to be away from eachother ALL the time! Having children is a "privealage" meant to be respected! Being away from them all the time is just plain "SELFISH"! Being away from the wife all the time is just plain "SELFISH"!
If these people out the in this so call "CABLE DAWG BROTHERHOOD" really cared, they would suggest to him that he get his butt home! But, they won't!
Get your husband home and "MAKE IT ON WHAT HE CAN MAKE LOCAL"!
It's VERY difficult at first!
I subcontracted for several years and and made good money! But, I hurt my relationship with my wife a little at first! Then I just moved her wherever I went each year! We finally got tired of that and stayed in Arkansas were I had taken a job with a supposeable "Goof" contractor! All they were out to do was use me! They paid me $46.00 bucks and hour for 6 months till they could learn the Sweep & Cert. field and then fired me! Is that careing? Not at all! BUT, it brought my wife & I even closer by perservering through it "TOGETHER"!
We have made it since April 24, 2001! With me doing just Low Voltage Hnadyman work! It's humbling! But, it's been worth it!
My wife love me even more for "CARING" enough for her feeling to "TRY"!
GET HIME OUT! If he is unwilling? He does not "LOVE" you enough!
My prayers are with you, your children and your husband to make the "RIGHT" move! GO HOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
>But I bet you are glad your home with your kids and family. I am putting the industry down, I appreciate all that my husband does and you guys do, but I can't help but to wish that he was here. I am only human. At least I am not wishing he wasn't here. Like some women do. They can't wait for their husbands to leave. I love doing things for Tim but I can't do things for him when he's gone.
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>>i just went through that and nothing is easy on him. i was in muscle schoals on fathers day when they put out the song by lonestar- i am already there. i made it for three years on the road and about two months ago i said screw it and came home. i have paid fin. for it, but i am at home with my two lovely kids. it is rough living on the road then trying to come in town for the weekend and make up of a whole week, all along just wanting to sit on the couch and watch tv.
>>if he is making it now and loves it i suggest he keeps on it as long as he can. he will be back, he might be a dawg at times, but that is just the cabldawg coming out in him.
>>good luck to all men in the road...
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>>>I am not looking for someone new. Just the man that already has my heart. We want my Husband and Father of this family back. He must be willing to be nice and not argue, even when he feels like it is the end of the world. He must possess a strong attitude of enduring love and patience towards everyone. He must be kind, considerate, and faithful. Never raise his voice, or say mean things. He must be willing to stay at home and find employment where his family lives. The jobs he has had have made him lots of money, but the consequences were that he didn't get to see his children grow up. And we are not any better off finacially than when we were unemployed and broke. We need you, and love you very much. I miss you. And I will never again say awful things to you out of anger. But,you must respect your wife and children. We are your family and you need to start acting like we are. Quit telling everyone you are divorced. Stop coming here and playing house, then laying up with any woman you can get your hands, feet and body in. If you think you might have the same interests as us, then email me and we can get together and have a secret passionate night. I promise I won't tell your wife. Love MichelleI
Re:Wanted: Desparately seeking Daddy and Husband
Member #: 147
Registered: 1996-2001
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Name:
Mark A. Pickrell
Name:
Mark A. Pickrell
Company:
World Of Sweep
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