My Son whom was born in 2006 "my mini me" well in 2008 his mother and I never really had a relationship so we parted ways. In 2009 I made a irrational decision to pursue a relationship with someone I thought would be in my future and I moved out of state. Well for the past 2 years I have given this new girl 2 years of my life away from my son which was very hard to do. She has a bright future however she has no kids and no idea what kids are like.
That being said I am begining to have 2nd thought and feel the right thing to do is move back to my sons town, get a place and be in his life where he needs me.
My girfriend is broken hearted but doesnt understand, I have offered to make a 1 year plan for her and I to move to be closer to him and she refuses.
It breaks my heart to know I have lead her on for 2 years and will now be leaving her to be closer to my son where I strongly feel my heart is.
My question is what would you do? I am an emotional roller coaster right now. Bottom line is I feel fresh air and alive when I am with my son. I know my girlfriend loves me unconditionaly but I know she will never move to be closer to my son and there will always be this struggle.
Thanks for all of your inputs and advice
Need Honest Opnion
Member #: 63164
Registered: 11/6/2008
Posted:
1228
Name:
JJ Evans
Company:
Good Times Studios
Location:
USA
Personal:
late 40s
Experience:
~30 years
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