That's your smartest move, oldschool. Too many people jump into new relationships because they don't want to be alone....I see it in my own family...I am proud to say that when my ex and I split, it was 8 months until I met Dan, and it was still a few months after that where I felt that I even wanted to consider a relationship....despite him telling me I was going to marry him about a month after we met!
There is someone out there for everyone...and my feeling is, better to be alone and at peace, than in a relationship that is frazzling you and causing chaos. It takes 2 to make or break a relationship...just keep your kids close and take things a day at a time. Jerry's post is a little bitter, and it's obvious by his suggestions....divorce is rarely about finding someone else or wanting s*x....more, it's the death of a situation and moving on...wish you the best and stick to your ideals and morals...as our military kids say "this too shall pass."
