Michelle,
I am the wife of a cable-man, There are still some good man out there.
But Maybe I can help you find your ex.
Here is what you need: Full legal Name, last know address, Date of Brith, SS number, Last known employer..and your personal email address.
I have a program that lets me check different types of data bases.. I found my 1st (deadbeat)husband with this program and nailed him for 12 years back child support..
When you have all those things I told you to get email them to
(-REDACTED-) that is my screen name and I will see if I can find him for you. remember not to sent them to this email address listed for this cabl bar screen name it is my husbands..and I won't get it for two weeks..