GET A JOB, GET A BABYSITTER AND STOP BEGGING FOR SOMEONE TO TAKE CARE OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. IN CASE YOU DID NOT KNOW, THAT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY. THERE ARE PROGRAMS THAT WILL HELP YOU FIND WORK, CHILD CARE, AND PROPER HEALTH INSURANCE FOR YOUR CHILDREN. IT SOUNDS AN AWFUL LOT LIKE YOU ARE OFFERING A STEADY PIECE OF ASS IN EXCHANGE FOR SOMEONE TO PAY YOUR BILLS AND HUG YOUR KIDS. GET OVER IT, GET ON WITH IT.