You are right in how we plan....or try to. But we are human. And there are forces out there we cannot know about. I have found when I follow the scriptures and pray life goes pretty good. I have not been doing that and life is not according to plan. Does this work for everyone? I don't know. I don't think we get to choose our lives all the time. I am sorry if you felt I was being defensive or took your words out of context. I wasn't trying to say you were wrong in your post. Just pointing out another view. I appreciate your words and concern that there was the possibility of hard feelings. You are a good person.
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