You guys are focusing on the negative.
He also taught us " If your not part of the solution, your part of the problem".
What I'm trying to say is take a look at his direction, his message or whatever, and ignore your gut reaction and find 1 thing positive.
If you go over the minutia with a negative attitude and pick out little things and misconstue them, that's not helping anything.
/sarcasm Look I'm sorry you lost and I know your in mourning, let me know if there is anything I can do
