Well they say sometimes you have to kick the bird out of the nest to get them to fly. It is hard and there will be hard feelings but it may be what you have to do. You may try letting him know if he can't get a job or at least education for a good one then he will have to go. Your daughter may go with him but will come back when things turn sour. This also has to go for his parents if he has any. He is still young but your daughter is old enough to be on her own. You can still help where you can but they have to sink or swim eventually.
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