I agree wholeheartedly, cablchik. I was fortunate that Dan wasn't on the road as the kids grew up, he was local for over 10 years until he "hit the road" so to speak. In retrospect, we have decided that maybe we were happier when we were "poor" - it's amazing what you can live on, and what you really don't need. It's true that "money doesn't buy happiness." You can't replace your kids growing up, or the things you have missed.