Female....I am sorry...that was a little harsh. It was in response to a post by you which I found to be aggressive...You are all right though. I am just a little old fashioned and a little to judgmental sometimes. You are right, I don't know you. I do however know a thing or two about being hurt by someone you love, and it is terrible, please don't set yourself up for the same thing again. I see it in you that you want approval and love, but you say you don't care much for that. He must have really broken your heart, I am sorry if I was mean....Best Wishes To You